Friday, June 7, 2013

oh hai, tok kadi! (part ll)

 After I wrote yesterday's entry about tok kadi booking, I thought that was the end of it.

Saliheen and I had accepted that our #1 choice tok kadi Ustaz Mohd Khair is not available on our wedding date so we decided on Ustaz Mohd Suhaimi instead - what else is there to it except wait for our wedding day to see our tok kadi in person, right?

So I blogged about our experience, continued doing my work, left office at the end of the day and went home. Same old, same old, right? Well, not quite. Because one hour and a half later, I received this notification in my email inbox:

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 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW RIDICULOUSLY EXCITED I WAS????? 

But obviously not as excited as my mat because when I called to tell him about the turn of events, he started shrieking and insisting that we apply for change of solemnizer on the ROMM website now now NOW -____- 

Dude refused to listen to me when I told him to call Ustaz Mohd Khair the next morning first to ask whether it really is possible SO to shut him up, I opened up the Change Solemnization Details application on ROMM website to do the necessary. Realized I couldn't do it because Ustaz Mohd Khair tak bukak any slots for November 2013 so my mat was forced to calm the eff down and wait until the next morning to ask the Ustaz.

Sooooo earlier today, my mat called Ustaz Mohd Khair to inform him that our wedding will be on a public holiday and asked whether he will be working... to which he laughed and said no, and told us to give him five minutes to open up a slot for us.

Five minutes later...

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 YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!

Now we not only can haz a tok kadi, we CAN HAZ OUR #1 CHOICE TOK KADI!!!!!

Sure, we had to pay $15 for making a change to our application but what is $15 as compared to having Ustaz Mohd Khair, who is our #1 choice tok kadi, preside at our nikah proceedings?!?!?! Definitely worth more than a mere $15, if you ask us. Woohoo!

Oh, but can someone tell my mamat not to be such a freak and hantar this kind of text:


Wahlau, must declare love and fangirlism segala...

But lolz aside, we really must give special thanks to Sis Haida actually - thank you so so so much because if not for your comment, we wouldn't have made the move to try asking Ustaz Mohd Khair again whether he can open up his slot on our wedding date.

And of course, all praises to the Al-Mighty for giving us this rezeki, Alhamdullilah! This is yet another incident that strengthens our faith in Qada and Qadar - you see, my mat and I were pretty bummed when Deepavali was changed from 3rd November 2013 (Sunday) to 2nd November 2013 (Saturday) because that change meant we wouldn't have a public holiday on Monday and will have to apply leave for Monday instead. 

Little did we know, that change turned out to be a momentous blessing in disguise - now that Deepavali (public holiday) is on our wedding date, Ustaz Khair can be our solemnizer when he wouldn't be able to do so if it was on any other working Saturday mornings.

Never fails to amaze us how God will give us our rezeki if it is indeed meant to be ours.

18 comments:

  1. Alhamdulillah! feeling must be awesome gila!!

    and Saliheen is damn hilarious!! hahaha!!! dah mcm fangirl dpt meet n greet pass for one direction! hahahaha!

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    1. the feeling is ~ahmazing~ thank you!!!

      and hahahahaha tu pasal lah, i was so embarassed when he showed me what he messaged Ustaz Khair ok!!!!! nak fangirling tak agak agak

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  2. It's my pleasure sis. I shared w ust what u wrote on yr blog abt him n he was touched:). He showed me yr fiance's msg n it gave me goosebumps especially the "fan" part but overall it was cute n sweet:).

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    1. so so sorry about the message sis, i was very embarrassed when he showed me what he messaged your husband! my fiance is a very expressive and very transparent person so dia memang very frank kalau dia suka dengan seseorang tu hehe.

      thank you from the bottom of our hearts once again, may you and your husband be blessed in the days ahead!

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  3. Yay!
    And your htb is damn hilarious can!! hahah... Now I can imagine ur htb so excited biler time nikah...heheh

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    1. hahahahaha dia memang macam tu babe!!! very terus terang. even when he started liking me, dia terus cakap dia suka, takde tunggu tunggu main word games mind games segala hehe. but malu pun adalah dia so expressive towards Ustaz Khair macam tu! lol

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  4. hi just wanted to say hello & thank you for a conprehensive list of vendors & helpful links! your blog is our go-to wedding resource. :)

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    1. oh hello! very happy to hear that i've been able to help in a small way! hope you don't mind if i follow your blog for updates as well - not sure if your wedding is in the later part of the year or next year so let me know if i get it wrong on the blogroll :)))

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    2. it's no problem! our wedding is in early 2014. :)

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  5. haha wow lucky you! my then-tunang also called ustaz syakir to check on his availability at 9-frickin-AM. cos we panicked when we didn't see his name in the drop-down list. he say he will have to release his slots online. to which fiance said, "oh, tak bole book ustaz kat phone skrg eh??" almost 6pm, he called us back to say dah bole chope. and the whole day at work i was doing nothing but hitting Refresh button just to see ustaz dah release slot ke belum. tapi alhamdulillah. all is goood!

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    1. hahaha i can so imagine korang punya anxiety!!! and i'd totally do the same thing you did seh - refresh refresh refresh sampai juling mata (abeh end up ustaz release slots at almost 6pm. fed up pe)

      but it was all worth it kan, because you all got your #1 tok kadi yay!

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  6. Sudah di takdir kan for you to have a Ustaz Khir in your wedding. He makes wonders when you least expect it. Happy for you. May you be blessed with more delightful wonders till you wedding.

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  7. Hello dear! Any idea from where i can ask to do bunga pahar and sireh dara?

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    1. hello there! you can ask vendors such as kasai sayang, bonito by bob, zudyra creation, pesona belle... i have complied a list of them here: http://www.kahwin-khronicles.com/p/directory.html

      oh, i also know that 'a rose wedding' does bunga pahar too! you can find and contact her here: http://arosewedding.blogspot.sg/

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