I don't usually post explicit stories about wedding vendors bitching and clawing each other to death because you can never really pass judgment without truly knowing both sides of the story.
Unfortunately the latest saga between two bouquet sellers is backed with legit pictorial evidence and has left me feeling very, very disgusted and very, very angry... and I am disgusted and engry enough to share the saga - You can click here to see the album specially dedicated to what happened by Cradle Love by Matyn + Mishel.
Unfortunately the latest saga between two bouquet sellers is backed with legit pictorial evidence and has left me feeling very, very disgusted and very, very angry... and I am disgusted and engry enough to share the saga - You can click here to see the album specially dedicated to what happened by Cradle Love by Matyn + Mishel.
No further comments from me because I'd prefer you browse through the postings and make your own conclusion. Peace out, K-town.
i tengok this "marlina" picture is SOOO FAMILIAR sak....ingat punya ingat then i realized she's the girl i ever read about in facebook for her mixed ethnicity in malaysia!
ReplyDeletehttp://www.facebook.com/merveilleuxmproduction/posts/308013072639407
And if you all lagi nak proof, google jer images for Sharyn Lisa Shufiyan and you will see the DP for this "marlina" obviously grabbed off the internet!
Dah dasar fake account habes habesan!
So from my CSI and memory skills above, tau tau lah korang nak conclude apa eh
YA!!!!! i saw one of the comments on the facebook wall, saying that the gambar is some malaysian girl punya gambar seh. WTF! tipu tak agak agak!
Deletethis one is terang terang case menipu dan menganiaya!
Not just any Malaysian girl, but the first Malaysian PM's great granddaughter!! - Nurul
Deleteyeah nurul, that's what the person who commented on FB said! so berani lor this BB
Deleteeh boleh sue kan pasal posing as someone else???
DeleteVery very annoyed!! Sampai hati kan kasi orang hopes that mulia and it crushed to pieces.. If it was me, i nangis2 tak tahu berapa hari then boleh mengamuk singa sey!
ReplyDeletei seriously tak paham what was the intention of doing all that she did seh?!?!?!
Deletewhat did she stand to gain and what did she hope to get out from it??? competition is competition lah, mana mana business pun akan ada competition, but if it's healthy competition memang expected and tak salah what?!
always found her postings dubious + she's always so aggressive on FB, but to find out that she's been doing such an extremely jijik thing??? super appalling!
yup you are right. i always find her status and posts very bold. little did we know about all these doings. sampai hatii
Deleteeeee jahat nye dia farhana!! .. whats wrong with these ppl sei.. sakit otak!!..
ReplyDeleteso dengki kan!!!!! SO angry when i read the whole exchange. main-mainkan perasan orang >:(
Deletei always thought her bouquets were great, no comparison at all! it's super pricey ah, but her bouquets were quality mah, so it's kind of justified.
ReplyDeleterupa-rupanya insecure. nak kena jahanamkan orang lain to naikkan diri sendiri.
MEHH.
about quality, that one no issue ah. good quality is good quality, but tak guna good quality but intention and perangai no good!
Deletesendiri nak jatuhkan orang, kan dah kena batang hidung sendiri
OMGGGG. lucky you post ni!!! you know im her fb follower and have always loved her bouquets!!! but tak tau pulak busuk hati punya orang! but now kan, i cant find the account already!! dia kene tutop la tu/??
ReplyDeletemerepek betol! menirap seh!
@audiibaby here anyway. xx
Deleteya!!! i already suspected something happened because semalam one of my friends cakap her FB cannot access already... suspect dah deactivate. then today i found out about this. hrmph.
Deletedah kanchiong lah tu! so angry kan baca what happened!!!
ah ah seh! tak sangka! all these while she potray herself as so angelic and all. sighs. some people tak boleh tgk orang happy seh!
Deleteaaaaaaaaaaa facebook blocked at my office! somebody tell me what is happening please!
ReplyDeletecerita panjangz gilz babe! baca through your phone? my office pun block facebook, i read and posted up everything via my iphone
Deletei just finished reading! :o omg apesal dia macam ni!
Deletetakde kerja, dengki dan busuk hati!
Deleteomg why so busuk hati one? i mean she stands nothing to gain and she sedap2 can put false hope into someone else's life. that's so low seh.
ReplyDeletethat's why lah!!!!! why you go kacau hidup orang all kan??? you sendiri will dapat malu kan buat gitu.
Deletesangguo give false hopes, and took the trouble to open fake fb account and give fake stories segala. SO ANGRY
I baca and I macam nak nangis, apa lagi Emildah eh! Kesiannya :(
ReplyDeleteOrang busuk mcm BB, rezeki susah datang tau nanti. Ishhh.
so meaaaaannn kan!!! i've always thought her FB postings selalu suka cari gaduh but tak expect sampai gitu sekali she sanggup buat just to "mati"kan people she sees as competition or as a threat. urghhh
Deleteand to think u blogged about BB in your "Choosing My Bridal Bouquet" milestone post eh? nasib u tak amik her to do ur bouquet seh...
ReplyDeletehannor!!! i didn't really like how she posts on FB + i wasn't looking for brooch bouquets anyway so i didn't even consider BB in the first place. but she was the person that btbs go to for brooch bouquets so i thought i'd mention her in that entry... tup tup tup dapat tau macam gini pulak perangai. cis!
Deleteomg sis i saw tt too and posted. so poor thing!!!! ni la competitors melayu :(:(
ReplyDeleteikr!!! felt sooooo bad for the poor owner of cradle love!
Deleteyou know when i read the entire album 2 days ago, i felt so kesian for Emildah. Because orang tu contract kerja dah abis and she need to support her family so of course, she would be excited about the huge order.
ReplyDeleteBut above all, this whole saga taught me something.
"If you are scared of competition, jangan buat business. Nothing will remain exclusive for long. no one and nothing is indispensable."
Needless to say, i am surprised for someone so popular, dia sanggup buat gini. Dia sendiri yang tutop periuk nasi dia. Last i saw, today she posted a message saying her business will cease. such a waste.
that's what i was most angry about! how can she do that to someone who is trying hard to tampung her life and her family :(((
Deleteand i wholeheartedly agree with what you say. kalau tak boleh angkat the challenges of business then angkat kaki and jalan sudah.
such a waste kan this BB? already made a name for yourself in the industry pastu 'mati'kan nama sendiri. and for what? own insecurities and iri hati. hopefully she learns from this mistake!
and for someone whom i assume, confirm byk order, and banyak class to conduct, eh dia banyak masa eh nak buat fake account ni semua! hahahaha
DeleteFarhana, I know what kind of person she is, she send some of her "contacts" or spy to my account and message me on my page. When i started the business, i told them if they can wait, i will have a DIY kit for them with instructions. Tau2 member dah buat DIY kit. For me, tak kisahlah kan if you nak buat apa pun untuk majukan your business. Business is business, rezeki tu kan Allah yang beri.
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing original or creator about this bridal bouquet thing. It has been around long in the US, UK..or other countries. Only recently the hype has come to Singapore. It's questionable to ask who is the creator of this brooch bouquet saga. Your bouquet is your style, your consumers buy based on what they like, what style they prefer.
Tak baiklah nak jatuhkan competitor in that way. Malu kan diri sendiri buat apakan, patutnya jadi perangsang or idol for all competitors to followkan..ni terbalik...instead of stepping forward, you step backwards and fall. Kesiankan....bunga bunga cinta, layu di pusara...=/
That is sooooooo terrible!!! What is her problem ni??? Penting sangat ke must be the "pioneer" or the "creator" or whatever??? Pastu idea hijack dari orang, bukan original mana pun.
DeleteAnd yeah, I agree with you! Two years ago, one of girlfriends was in the midst of her wedding preps and showed me range of brooch bouquets from Etsy - so it is definitely something that has been around for some time. If BB nak "conquer" and say she is the original creator then cakap dengan diri kirim salam seluar dalam. Even if she was the first person to start doing brooch bouquets in Singapore for local Malay weddings, so what??? Adat berniaga kan, mesti ada new entrants. Not like she can cope with all the demand kan??? Kasi lah orang lain chance, lagipun different people have different methods + different clients have different tastes kan! URGH SO ANGRY
that's right lah babe, so sayang that she took the step backwards instead of forward... sama sama boleh maju with other vendors tak nak, hah kau ambik kau terjatuh and termalu sendiri.
OMG! Luckily I stumbled upon this blog of yours. I had paid her $50 deposit for my wedding bouquet.
ReplyDeleteShe whatsapp me yesterday saying this....
BB: Salam dear...I have deactivate my Blushing Bouquet fb acct but all order made will be ready & delivered as promised...Anything u can just whatsapp me from here k
Me: Noted on that. Btw kenape you deactivate your fb acct? Can't admire your bouquets anymore.
BB: I will be gg slower will be moving to website instead.
TIPAH TERTIPU!!!!!
- Riza -
oh no!
Deletei was wondering what will happen to her existing orders seh babe, but ok lah, at least she's going to honour her existing orders daripada terus lesap. hopefully she will deliver what she promise ok!
i guess she didn't want to be explicit as to why she tiba tiba takde hek takde hok go and deactivate her FB... so she had to come up with some excuse. pfft.
I saw one of BB's post ranting about this mak andam she is angry with. Coz according to BB, this mak andam claimed she did the brooch bouquet done by BB. so BB furious, padahal her brooches jatuh2/dropping from the bouquet. all the mak andam did was to glue it back. talking about quality.....
ReplyDeleteyeah i saw the exchange on the mak andam's FB, babe! sooo kecoh. itu je tengok macam dah lain macam... but this issue is up another level seh the kurang ajarness!
Deleteyang buat menyampah is she keep praising and lambung lambung herself but criticizing and bringing down others without others... padahal diri sendiri tak betul >:(
omg. why so jahat! :/
ReplyDeletesuper jahat, right!!! tapi nak buat jahat, tak tau cover bontot
Deleteeh.. sorry.. i've read all of the convos and print screen and all.. but still cannot get the picture.. ni pasal apa eh? HAHAHAHA. hari ni process abit slow.. nak kena upgrade dulu..
ReplyDeleteBlushing Bouquet (BB) = established bridal bouquet maker and seller
DeleteCradle Love (CL) = newbie who has just started making bridal bouquets
BB created a fake Facebook profile with the name "Marlina James" and pretended to order a huge order worth $5000++ from CL. After several correspondences, CL realized that "Marlina James" is not a real person and the person behind the account is actually BB. senang cakap BB tipu CL bulat bulat - about the orders, about the offer to kasi pekerjaan, about giving sedekah to needy, etc.
CL thinks that the reason why BB did this is so that she can brag about herself and her skills + make CL attend her classes so the next time someone mentions CL, BB can say that she was the one who taught CL how to make bouquets (ambik credit)
I think they reactivated their account already - now just 'Blushing Bouque'. :/
ReplyDeletereally, babe??? i tried searching for it on FB but tak dapat. ah well, just as well, i guess.
Deletetak ku sangka2.. i agree that her FB postings were boastful and ngada2 yet she preaches about agama and doing good deeds.
ReplyDeleteNie lah orang tamak, kan dah rugi. Sepandai2 tupai melompat akhirnya jatuh ke tanya jua..
it was, wasn't it????? ada hati nak preach preach segala pastu diri sendiri tak betul. balasan!
DeleteIni kes orang da sakit otak...Isk isk, kesian...
ReplyDeletesakit otak and sakit jiwa. ngada ngada sangat!
Deletereally didnt expect her to do such things! i dont think im gg for her class anymore.. i dont want to learn from someone who main2 kan perasaan org, especially biler part rezeki :(
ReplyDeleteyeah i remember you went to class before jugak kan? so you're cancelling another class? guess it's for the best, because if i'm you, i'd be so tawar hati nak belajar from someone like that :/
DeleteI've just blocked her from my account. Have always been so uncomfortable by her posts, which O felt is always so negative towards others. Had a personal encounter with her & realized how nasty she is. Good riddance!
ReplyDeletethat's true!!! she was always condescending and negative towards customers and competitors and it wasn't very healthy ah to begin with. what with this saga, confirms that she isn't a very pleasant person to work with! pfft
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